Dating Tips For Women And Men

Dating tips
Dating Tips for women and Men

Dating Advice For Women And Men

Dating can be extremely complicated sometimes, but worth the time when you finally meet your soulmate.  After numerous movies and dinner dates, without a full commitment, you may start to wonder what's wrong with society today. Don't throw in the towel quite yet, your Mr. or Mrs. right may just be around the corner. 

I know it's tempting to give up, but try some different methods of meeting people. After all, you don't want to spend all your nights alone with the TV and social media watching everyone else post about their night on the town with their boo.

Dating can be a mesmerizing awesome experience when done right and in order. Of course, nobodies perfect, but you know what qualities you desire in your future spouse. 

Let's face it, are you dating for the purpose of finding an awesome friend that can possibly turn into your spouse, or are you looking for a hit it and quit it. Someone just to pass the time with. 

If you are aiming for a more meaningful date, It just may lead to an amazing long-term relationship.

Dating Goals

What's your dating goal? Is your goal to find Mr. or Mrs. Right and be monogamous?  Or would you rather lead a promiscuous lifestyle that may lead to various things; such as, diseases, financial problems, and more. It's your decision, but make sure that you can live with the consequences; whether it's good or bad!

 It would be nice if everyone was honest and let you know upfront if they are playing games or looking for something lasting, but we are in this real-world called life, where unfortunately everyone is not as honest as the next person. Let's be thankful for the good ones because there are good people out there.

Dating A Friend

Dating a friend

Have you ever had a friend that you related so well with? You laughed, giggled, and confided in each other. Well, if you two are both single, have you ever tried connecting on a mutual relationship/dating level? Now if you know the person is a cheater, I wouldn't advise putting yourself in that fire. Otherwise, if they are a decent person, why not come out of the friend zone? You probably have similar values and ethics. You may already be comfortable with being around your family and friends. I feel every husband and wife should have a friendship together where they enjoy each other's company.

A couple
Enjoying Friendship and Dating

Being friends first is a great foundation for a healthy and happy relationship. It's a wonderful feeling to be with someone that enjoys spending time with you, laying around on a rainy day watching movies together. Especially when there is a strong bond between you both! That connection that makes you adore each other! That being respectful, giving, and valuing each other in special ways with mutual happiness. 

Friendship must be a Two-way street! Meaning both parties must desire and have these qualities towards each other. You should have mutual respect for each other even when you disagree about things because let's face it, nobody agrees on everything. You value spending quality time together and pushing each other in completing their dreams and goals.

Have a great first Impression

Getting ready for a first date can be strenuous. The anticipation can cause nervousness. Get yourself together. Motivate yourself to have self-confidence in yourself that will shine through as strength, and not cockiness. Bring your A-game to the table. Make a great first impression by being nice, neat, and fashion-forward.  Listen to what your date is saying, so you'll know how to appropriately respond with intelligence and kindness. Make eye contact and smile with that beautiful smile of yours, making the room light up when you walk in the room.

Tips for Dating

A variety of places to meet a date

Your Mr. or Mrs. Right can be at the grocery store, church, park, etc. You never know where you will meet him/her. Imagine you are at the lake relaxing one day and he or she happens to be there. Wouldn't that be great? You never know what's in store for you!

Quotes listed on NotableQuotes,
  • "Dating is pressure and tension. What is a date, really, but a job interview that lasts all night?" -JERRY SEINFELD, stand-up routine
  • "Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen." -  HENRY CLOUD, How to Get a Date Worth Keeping 

Ask friends for ideas of single people they know. Get out in the community, do charity events, and maybe pick up a new hobby. - Tammi Pickle

Related: Husband Material: What Makes a Perfect Husband (According to Data)  

Don't Look For a spouse in a Bar

There are places you don't want to look for keepers at. You don't want to spend your first date in a bar waiting for a man or woman that might troll the bars all the time waiting on vulnerable prey. This goes for men and women because these days everyone has to be careful.

  • Bars Are Filled With Alcohol- which tends to make things seem and look better than they are. You don't want to sober up and realize that person you thought you had an intelligent conversation with, don't know his left from his right. Try a restaurant or somewhere you can relax and mingle if someone comes up to you. Some restaurants have bars, but that is a different type of setting.
  • Bars can Be Filled with people looking for One-Night Stands- There will be some cruising the bars looking for that hit it and quit it or booty call as some like to call it. I'm keeping it real with you! Be Aware!!
  • Bars can Be Less Romantic- A bar has drunks hanging around and a lot of competition. Try places like that wedding you're invited to.
Don't look for a spouse in a Bar

No matter what, keep yourself nice and neat and be ready to mingle when someone catches your eye, but be safe! If it doesn't work out, try again! As they say, there is plenty of fish in the sea.

Author: Arica  Green (Arica G) is the Founder and Editor of  Inveigle Magazine. She created a premiere Lifestyle, Fashion, and Beauty Magazine to entice you towards positive change and increase the quality of life. With Arica's love for writing and informing the Universe about a variety of topics, Inveigle Magazine was born. Follow us @ Inveiglemagazi1 & on FB . View more articles by Arica Green

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